Abandonment Issues  

Notwithstanding that holding onto parent’s and screaming are part of suffering through separation anxiety, once in a while phobias and exaggerated reactions to loss or separation often prove to have such past life roots. This will be discussed more later. Case histories indicate that children who have been abandoned by the same soul in other lives are more sensitive to separation anxiety. It’s as if they came back with this soul to see if this lifetime, that soul would honor their need for them.
And sometimes it is the opposite where the abandonment resonance was from the now child, former parent in the other life, having abandoned the now parent and creating karmic retribution during this life time.
 
As stated, past life experiences often interface with childhood abandonment stories and separation issues. Age and developmental stage has a huge effect on how deeply the child is imprinted with the feelings of loss, aloneness, isolation, and abandonment. Because children are ego-centric and believe everything relates to and is caused by them, all of the emotional phenomenon above are accompanied by feelings of rejection and unworthiness which add to the burden the unhappy child is already carrying.
 
With loss comes grief and the necessary process of mourning the perceived loss or the real loss whatever the case may be. Un-mourned in the past or parallel life, is un-mourned in the life the child is currently experiencing and is always unhealthy and causes the sadness and anxiety to persist.
 
If handled correctly by the care-givers, the child will not experience shame or embarrassment for feeling their pain. Not allowing them to feel their feelings or ignoring the grieving period sets up a life long pattern of stuffing their feelings and often, turning them off to such an extent they become out of touch with their own feelings. Acknowledging that loss is one of life’s larger issues that eventually will have to be dealt with by everyone, not just children, eases their minds. Past life sessions give the child the opportunity to understand the healing inherent in completing unfinished grief, fragments of which have re-surfaced in their current lives. Regardless if the loss of the loved one is a temporary separation or a loss through death, these are opportunities to teach the child that they are always attached to their loved ones through the energy of their love where they live in their heart no matter what dimension the loved one is in.
 
Nightmares in Childhood
 
There are many cases where a relatively innocuous stimulus such as the sight of a military uniform, a particular animal, a scene from a movie, or the sound of a scream may trigger a past life memory in the child's deep unconscious. The child's intense reaction may be suggestive of trauma or childhood abuse, but often there has been no abuse in this lifetime. What has been triggered is a past life memory in the child's subconscious mind which is the repository of that soul’s Akashic records. Such residues often constitute the stuff of night terrors as they are replayed in the imagination by the unconscious in an attempt to finish with the post traumatic stress connected to the other life incident. In such cases, the young are very clear about their fear of being eaten or killed so that these perceptions can be removed and explained away in the case of irrational fears.
 
A satisfactory resolution may be reached with therapeutic intervention. Kindness, understanding, and compassion for the past life trauma they are experiencing versus judgment is crucial if the child is to move past these recurring terrors and survive with their newly developing self esteem intact.
 
Conclusion
 
The use of Regression Therapy does not require a deep trance, is not maintained for long periods and is less foreign a concept to a child, depending on their family programming, often than to an adult.
 
If children are allowed to retain the universality of the knowledge they came in with, and the interconnectedness they may still feel to the other side, taking a trip to another “imagined’ life is not that unusual for them. Children are fanciful and imaginative and believe in all manner of alter ego lives both for themselves, invisible friends, and for non physical entities like fairies and angels.
 
If the parents do not believe in the process or in the eternal life of the soul, it may not be a good idea to have their child undergo this other-life game with a clinical therapist unless, they are willing to stay open minded and learn about different methodologies for healing their offspring. Otherwise adding their opinions about the process may color the child’s beliefs for the rest of their life and will probably undermine the process so that it is rendered non viable as an avenue of therapy.
 
Excerpted from Doctoral Thesis 2001, “Non-Imprinting Non-Traumatizing Regression Therapy,” and Soul Talk: Rescripting Karmic Contracts, 2008, Adele Tartaglia
 

 
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