[Answers to "Ask the Therapist" are excerpted from Transform Your Life Instantly: Erase & Replace Programs and Emotions Make the Law of Attraction Work for You... Instead of Against You(c) 2011 Adele Tartaglia]

You are doing the right things to support yourself and you have made a lot of progress. Using tools to reformat some belief systems and thinking patterns will allow your own inner direction will become evident to you.

I was reading over your intake form and when you finish telling me about your priorities, we will continue to look for the underlying core beliefs. We can help define and narrow down your goal so we can work on blocks specific to the exact result you are trying to manifest.

You have a normal outpicturing of a critical judgmental childhood environment.
From this type of emotionally abusive conditioning, self doubt, lack of self worth, and addiction to directions develops. The child becomes filled with inadequacy beliefs that stymie their developing a normal healthy ego structure. Adding the “I’m invisible” identity that comes from being ignored, to the “Unworthiness” identity compounds the situation.

The person becomes convinced they cannot make decisions for themselves, gives up trying, and becomes co-dependent assuming that everyone else knows better than they do what to do with their lives. Many a mistaken turn in life, including ill fated marriages, result from following what others tell you to do without analyzing it and seeing if their advice fits your goals or even who you are. But when you come to depend on others to control your life, assume everyone but you is smart enough to make your life decisions, this is what happens. Interestingly enough accepted as a child as the way life is, as an adult, resentment, conflict, and resistance often accompany these inculcated patterns of behavior and sabotage our desires even more. Read more ...

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Here are a few quotes from my book Transform Your Life Instantly to tickle your thought processes.  Let me know if they do.

***Removing the foundational issues stops the triggering effect of subconscious conditioning so you are free to respond to life in the moment from the Intentions of the Conscious Mind instead of from automated unconscious programs.

***Aligning the Subconscious Mind with the Conscious Mind is the end of suffering, guilt, anxiety, unworthiness and frustration.

*** Whatever you are worrying about or fearing…you are creating! Worry and fear always create the event you are concerned about. Energy always creates the object of its attention. Negative energy directed toward any event produces more of, and amplifies, that experience.

***The inconsistencies between the old programming in the subconscious mind and the new programming and goals in the conscious mind creates an out of sync, in conflict state between the multi-leveled mind of man. This is the determining factor in your success or failure in achieving your goals and maintaining a balanced life. Once the unconscious mind's beliefs and goals are brought into congruity with the conscious mind's beliefs and goals, success is automatic. The therapeutic goal is to set up a harmonic resonance between the two so that they work cooperatively together rather than blocking and sabotaging each other. By synchronizing energy patterns, your manifesting power is exponentially magnified, an effortless process, and has guaranteed outcomes. It is this easy to have a happy, loving, peaceful life of purpose.

About the Author: Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, NLP-TLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression & Hypnotherapist, Restructuring Therapist, Life Management Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Tours Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.  

Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional  Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You © 2005. In response to the calls and emails the 2nd Edition Ebook and Workbook will be out soon! Meanwhile read the online articles and listen to the show. 

This is a blog where we can interface online and move toward a better quality of life sourced from your Authentic Self before the programming which knows the universal laws of creation and works in harmony with them.

After years of being a therapist and a self empowerment facilitator, I believe everyone can
BE THE PERSON THEY WANT TO BE & HAVE THE LIFE THEY WANT TO HAVE! 

You are the creator of your life, not genetically pre-determined to repeat your parent's lives and attitudes. Not choosing to do your personal work and bring your dual mind into alignment is a choice to be the same as you are now…ten years from now.

I have developed a new therapeutic model, Restructuring Therapy, that makes your mind work for you instead of against you. Unique restructuring protocols delete and reformat the content of the subconscious and conscious minds instantly.

The Law of Attraction works against ninety percent of people because of subconscious negative programming that is the major attracting factor of life events. By transforming these sabotaging programs into positive life supporting ones, your life changes without any effort on your part. Read more ...