Disrespectful Behavior
Episode Number:
033
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Parental Power 
Jamie was talking to Vicki recently and brought up a question about what to do with or about children who are being disrespectful and defiant.
Your authority as a parent is determined by two factors. First, you have to be able to set and enforce appropriate limits. Second, you have to be seen as a provider of good times and good things. Find a good balance of these two factors in order to establish a position of authority with your children.
Respect is not free, but must be earned. We generally want to teach our children respect, but for them to respect us we have to earn that respect by showing them that we are more powerful than they are and that we love them unconditionally. This knowledge helps to settle children emotionally.
With any age of child, choosing the right kind of consequences is a key to providing effective discipline. Become very clear in your own mind about what you control and what you don’t, then select consequences that you can enforce no matter what your child thinks.
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