Resilience - And Traits That Strengthen It
Episode Number:
021 
http://www.TheLaymansGuidetoDivorce.com VelDean shares the stories of two of her friends who went through tremendous adversity, but were resilient through the process. She suggests that three characteristics helped to create or sustain their resilience and their remarkable recovery through their trauma: 1) Understanding our divine nature, our strength of spirit, 2) Seeking learning and understanding from all of our experiences, and 3) Feeling and expressing gratitude in all of our experiences, both good and bad.
Divorce brought some of the most challenging and devastating experiences to VelDean. Now, in her work as The Layman's Guide to Divorce, she seeks to empower others with the knowledge and advocacy they need to successfully emerge from their divorce experience.
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http://www.TheLaymansGuidetoDivorce.com VelDean shares the stories of two of her friends who went through tremendous adversity, but were resilient through the process. She suggests that three characteristics helped to create or sustain their resilience and their remarkable recovery through...
http://www.TheLaymansGuidetoDivorce.com Grief is a natural process in recovering from divorce. VelDean discusses various stages of grief and recovery. Ultimately, there is hope of living a full and healthy life following divorce, but it is not a simple process to get there.
Denial played a strong role in VelDean's marriage, prior to her divorce. She relays how she discovered that she had been in denial for some time regarding her husband's infidelity. She discusses denial and what how it is used as a means of coping with thoughts, facts or feelings that are...
How parents choose to handle their divorce, the dissolution of their marriage and the restructuring of their family has a keen impact on the emotional health of the children emerging from this transition. VelDean discusses statistics related to children growing up in fatherless homes, and the...
VelDean shares information from May Smith, Broker of Atlanta Mortgage Lending about the potential impact of divorce on your credit score and specifically steps you can take to minimize the damage as you go into and through divorce. This is the third and final segment of the series Avoiding Credit...
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VelDean shares information from May Smith, Broker of Atlanta Lending Mortgage company, about the potential impact of divorce on your credit score, and the importance of planning ahead and guarding your credit as you go through divorce. The impact of poor decisions at this time can follow for years...
The impact of divorce on adult children of the marriage is significant. It can be equally or more harmful than on younger children.
The effects of divorce on children depend on a number of important factors. VelDean discusses the effect at various age levels, and the impact of how parents deal with their children through the divorce. Also touches on children and counseling, and confidentiality with counselors.
If you are considering divorce -- or you feel that your spouse may be -- the implications relating to financial decisions are significant. This segment takes a look at financial steps to take before filing for divorce, during the course of divorce, and following the final order and decree. ...
A discussion of items or issues that still need to be dealt with, once the Final Order and Decree have been filed and the divorce is final. There are often straggling details that need to be attended to, in order to really finalize certain issues, including distribution of any portion of pension...
The holidays can bring additional stress to divorcing or divorced families, especially relating to how to share the children during this time. VelDean gives some suggestions for managing this time in such a way that it can still be a joyful time for the children and for you.
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I have found that every person going through divorce has unique experiences, questions and learning experiences. I would love to be able to address some of YOUR pressing questions, and share YOUR greatest insights that you have gained -- whether going through a divorce yourself or watching someone...
It all started with a phone call on a Sunday afternoon. Well, to be more precise,
the Sunday afternoon call put the chink in the dam, the chink to led to a drastic
change of course in my life and the lives of my children, the chink that led to a
flood that affected the lives of so many.
In truth...
