Top 10 Keys to Having Lifelong Girlfriends 1. No hidden agenda Agendas come and go… real friends are there through thick and thin, fat and skinny or rich and poor. 2. True Girlfriends are supportive emotionally and physically These are the girls who will give you a hug when you need one, they always have a shoulder for you to cry on and they have a high five ready and waiting when you succeed. 3. Girlfriends aren't afraid of being gently honest Gentle is the key here. 4. Girlriends aren't guarded around each other You can speak your mind. 5. Girlfriends can agree to disagree This takes mutual respect. 6. Friendship is NOT a competition! There's no room for jealousy between Girlfriends. As th legendary Zig Ziglar says, "You will have everything in life you want.. if you will help other people get what they want." 7. No guilt.. EVER Everyone is busy these days so when you and a Girlfriend do have time to get together, you should pick back up where you left off like no time has passed. 8. There's no tit for tat There's no keeping score of how many times my child spends the night or you pick up the kids after school. It all balances out in the end. 9. Always share your best life secrets Whether you’ve just found the best mascara on the face of the planet or the secret to potty training, you always share the wealth. 10. When you can’t laugh.. you do anyway Your girlfriends can help you find the bright side and maybe even remind you that laughter is the best medicine.