http://thewinonline.com/episodes/3700/feed en ℗ & © 2009 Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show Adele Tartaglia, Bd. Cert. Therapist. Life Coach, Empowerment Facilitator Be the Person You Want to Be.....Have the Life You Want to Have! from...Transform Your Life Instantly: Erase & Replace Programs and Emotions Make the Law of Attraction Work for You...Instead of Against You! Your Life is A Reflection of Your Beliefs Change Your Beliefs....Change Your Life! Belief Management is Life Management. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com This is an Interactive Show...Email Questions...Get Answers easytherapy@cox.net 480/706-8137 IT'S FREE THERAPY! Why Is This Show Important? The Law of Attraction works against most people because it is your subconscious mind that is interfacing with the universe. Unconscious negative programs are the major attracting factor of life events. By changing these programs into positive ones, your life changes without any effort on your part. You begin to live an intentional life of purpose. This is a show about empowering You. Reformatting the subconscious mind, the mind that's creating your reality, is easy and instant with today's advance technology. You're going to learn about Restructuring Therapy that supersedes any of the Law of Attraction processes available today. We'll talk about understanding your mind so you can understand why your life has unfolded like it has. You'll come to realize no matter what you are going through in your life, you will not only survive it but thrive in the future by changing the consciousness that automatically manifested what you are experiencing today. You will be infinitely more balanced, happy, successful, and confident. We're creating it all and we can learn how to create a better reality in a more deliberate way. As the decision maker, you can change anything about yourself you want to by examining and taking responsibility for your beliefs, thoughts, words, and actions. Everyone can be Happy, Loved, Peaceful and Successful. Locating and deleting negative blocking beliefs and programs, and replacing them with life affirming ones, will provide you with the life of your dreams. During the process of erasing and replacing beliefs, behaviors, traits, emotions, memories, traumas, coping mechanisms and identities, peace is restored to your body mind soul. Restructuring and aligning your multi-leveled mind gives you control of your mind and thus control of your life. An aligned consciousness manifests goals automatically. To stop experiencing repetitive life patterns, you have to change the program that is creating it. Removing the originating program stops the "Why Is This Happening to Me Again" pattern. The triggering effect ceases so you can live in the moment from conscious mind intentions rather than creating your life from subconscious mind default settings. This show teaches you tools to create the life of your dreams by returning to, and living from, your Authentic Self, the self before the programming, in an intentionally deliberate way that reveals your divine essence, love. You Are the Guru you have been waiting for...you just don't know who you are. Understanding who you are and who you are not is your gift to the world as you align your vibrations to your joyous source being self. You are not your past, you are not your choices, you are not your actions, you are not your programs, you are not your body, you are not your mind, you are not your thoughts, you are not your bank balance, nor are you your beliefs. You are a whole complete perfect outpicturing of infinite intelligence, creative mind, unconditional love, immeasurable worthiness, unlimited freedom, and divine harmony. And deleting paradigms that are oppositional to this one, is easy and necessary to show up as your Authentic Self. We make a difference by demonstrating our willingness to change just as we want to see change in the world. The mind of man is entrained not only with the aware universe waiting to respond to the vibrations emanating from it, but with the consciousness of all other life forms. There being only one of us here manifesting in a myriad of ways, when we clean up our own multi-leveled mind, consciousness on the planet is cleansed as well as we move toward the zero point of loving kindness to be brought about by critical mass. What is the Show's take-away? Transforming your life is as simple as taking control of the content of your dual mind by deleting programs that trigger automatic responses to stimuli that keep you living in the past. You react to life instead of responding to it in the moment with deliberate choices you make. A new modality has been developed with profoundly simple efficient tools to restore present moment awareness and intentionality back to you. Join us and enjoy the experience of returning home to yourself. With you in the journey of creating a peaceful joyous life, Adele Ann Be the Person You Want to Be.....Have the Life You Want to Have! from...Transform Your Life Instantly: Erase & Replace Programs and Emotions Make the Law of Attraction Work for You...Instead of Against You! Your Life is A Reflection of Your Beliefs Change Your Beliefs....Change Your Life! Belief Management is Life Management. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com This is an Interactive Show...Email Questions...Get Answers easytherapy@cox.net 480/706-8137 IT'S FREE THERAPY! Why Is This Show Important? The Law of Attraction works against most people because it is your subconscious mind that is interfacing with the universe. Unconscious negative programs are the major attracting factor of life events. By changing these programs into positive ones, your life changes without any effort on your part. You begin to live an intentional life of purpose. This is a show about empowering You. Reformatting the subconscious mind, the mind that's creating your reality, is easy and instant with today's advance technology. You're going to learn about Restructuring Therapy that supersedes any of the Law of Attraction processes available today. We'll talk about understanding your mind so you can understand why your life has unfolded like it has. You'll come to realize no matter what you are going through in your life, you will not only survive it but thrive in the future by changing the consciousness that automatically manifested what you are experiencing today. You will be infinitely more balanced, happy, successful, and confident. We're creating it all and we can learn how to create a better reality in a more deliberate way. As the decision maker, you can change anything about yourself you want to by examining and taking responsibility for your beliefs, thoughts, words, and actions. Everyone can be Happy, Loved, Peaceful and Successful. Locating and deleting negative blocking beliefs and programs, and replacing them with life affirming ones, will provide you with the life of your dreams. During the process of erasing and replacing beliefs, behaviors, traits, emotions, memories, traumas, coping mechanisms and identities, peace is restored to your body mind soul. Restructuring and aligning your multi-leveled mind gives you control of your mind and thus control of your life. An aligned consciousness manifests goals automatically. To stop experiencing repetitive life patterns, you have to change the program that is creating it. Removing the originating program stops the "Why Is This Happening to Me Again" pattern. The triggering effect ceases so you can live in the moment from conscious mind intentions rather than creating your life from subconscious mind default settings. This show teaches you tools to create the life of your dreams by returning to, and living from, your Authentic Self, the self before the programming, in an intentionally deliberate way that reveals your divine essence, love. You Are the Guru you have been waiting for...you just don't know who you are. Understanding who you are and who you are not is your gift to the world as you align your vibrations to your joyous source being self. You are not your past, you are not your choices, you are not your actions, you are not your programs, you are not your body, you are not your mind, you are not your thoughts, you are not your bank balance, nor are you your beliefs. You are a whole complete perfect outpicturing of infinite intelligence, creative mind, unconditional love, immeasurable worthiness, unlimited freedom, and divine harmony. And deleting paradigms that are oppositional to this one, is easy and necessary to show up as your Authentic Self. We make a difference by demonstrating our willingness to change just as we want to see change in the world. The mind of man is entrained not only with the aware universe waiting to respond to the vibrations emanating from it, but with the consciousness of all other life forms. There being only one of us here manifesting in a myriad of ways, when we clean up our own multi-leveled mind, consciousness on the planet is cleansed as well as we move toward the zero point of loving kindness to be brought about by critical mass. What is the Show's take-away? Transforming your life is as simple as taking control of the content of your dual mind by deleting programs that trigger automatic responses to stimuli that keep you living in the past. You react to life instead of responding to it in the moment with deliberate choices you make. A new modality has been developed with profoundly simple efficient tools to restore present moment awareness and intentionality back to you. Join us and enjoy the experience of returning home to yourself. With you in the journey of creating a peaceful joyous life, Adele Ann clean Transform Your Life Instantly Show transforminstantly@cox.net http://thewinonline.com/episode/identifying-habitual-negative-self-talk   Identifying Habitual Negative Self Talk This show is taken from my 2005 book, How to Stop Sabotaging Your Life...Understand Your Mind....Understand Your Life   The idea of this show, and my therapy practice is to remind you that no matter what you are going through in this moment, you will come through it, infinitely more balanced, happy, and self confident than ever before... by learning how to make your mind work for you... instead of against you. You are the only one creating your life.....and you can stop creating any event whenever you want to. The words you speak in and think in are indicators of the underlying beliefs you hold in consciousness about yourself. The body mind spirit believes everything you say to it and about it. To alter your words and make them more deliberately chosen, instead of unconscious repetitions of implanted habitual speech patterns, can change your life within itself. As we've been discussing, implementing Conscious Languaging into your life as one of the most empowering changes in behavior you can make. When you grow up with constant criticism you become critical and judgmental not only about yourself but about everyone and everything else too. Your lack of worthiness and feeling you can't do anything right is an early imprint that stays with you and creates an unstable basis upon which you build the rest of life unless you delete the program. It leaves you shame based always feeling you are the criticism leveled at you.  Below are those derogatory statements delivered to you early in life which you unconsciously and erroneously have taken on as your persona. Today's Take Away... The most important thing to get in this entire series on conscious languaging is that we are not the judgments or the labels our families put on us. That is just our personal mythology which is more about the family intergenerational mythology that our unique identity.    This Week's Homework...Begin noticing every time you think or repeat any label or attribute your family used to describe you.  Write it down in your Journal under the title Personal Mythology.  As you start deleting these labels, these family beliefs about you, you will become clearer about who you really are.                                                                                                  Identifying Habitual Negative Self Talk This show is taken from my 2005 book, How to Stop Sabotaging Your Life...Understand Your Mind....Understand Your Life   The idea of this show, and my therapy practice is to remind you that no matter what you are going through in this moment, you will come through it, infinitely more balanced, happy, and self confident than ever before... by learning how to make your mind work for you... instead of against you. You are the only one creating your life.....and you can stop creating any event whenever you want to. The words you speak in and think in are indicators of the underlying beliefs you hold in consciousness about yourself. The body mind spirit believes everything you say to it and about it. To alter your words and make them more deliberately chosen, instead of unconscious repetitions of implanted habitual speech patterns, can change your life within itself. As we've been discussing, implementing Conscious Languaging into your life as one of the most empowering changes in behavior you can make. When you grow up with constant criticism you become critical and judgmental not only about yourself but about everyone and everything else too. Your lack of worthiness and feeling you can't do anything right is an early imprint that stays with you and creates an unstable basis upon which you build the rest of life unless you delete the program. It leaves you shame based always feeling you are the criticism leveled at you.  Below are those derogatory statements delivered to you early in life which you unconsciously and erroneously have taken on as your persona. Today's Take Away... The most important thing to get in this entire series on conscious languaging is that we are not the judgments or the labels our families put on us. That is just our personal mythology which is more about the family intergenerational mythology that our unique identity.    This Week's Homework...Begin noticing every time you think or repeat any label or attribute your family used to describe you.  Write it down in your Journal under the title Personal Mythology.  As you start deleting these labels, these family beliefs about you, you will become clearer about who you really are. CONTACT INFO: The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Nationwide Therapy & Life Coaching Phone Sessions 480/706-8137 Immediate Relief. Restructuring Therapy Reformat the Subconscious Mind In Minutes.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, NLPTLT, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression & Hypnotherapist, Business & Life Coach, Author, Avatar Master, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.     Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 13:20 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/identifying-habitual-negative-self-talk#comments conscious languaging create your reality disempowering words habitual speech patterns NLP personal mythology. self sabotage words program your mind words to empowerment words Sun, 26 Jun 2011 22:20:00 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 12555 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/self-sabotaging-self-talk-beliefs-words-set-you-up-failure Self Sabotaging Self Talk Beliefs & Words That Set You Up for Failure This show is taken from my book, How to Stop Sabotaging Your Life...Understand Your Mind....Understand Your Life Most of us know we don't want to re-live our parent's lives and yet, if we continue to frame up life from their biases and viewpoints, using the same words to describe ourselves and life itself, that's just what will happen. From now on, every time you hear yourself say anything like these declarations, cancel it immediately, and then circle it on the list so you can delete it and rescript it when you are doing the Deletion Creation Protocols.  These are common communications people make to themselves, about themselves. They are also frequent words we say unconsciously that are nevertheless framing up our lives. Here are three tests to take in your head before you condemn yourself with statements like those below: Would you want to say these things to your own children realizing it is creating their self image? Do you want to be the person these phrases describe? Would the Creator say them to you after taking the time and care to create the uniqueness that is you? Today's Take Away...  Words are extremely powerful as we know and they are either affirming the programs already in our subconscious mind or setting up new life supporting programs we are installing with our words. You are making this choice every minute. This Week's Homework...Listen to yourself this week and try to hear what your messages to yourself are as stated in your self talk and the way you talk about yourself to others.  Note in your Journal every negative, demeaning, limiting statement, belief, and word you use to describe yourself.  CONTACT INFO: The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137 Instant Relief. NATIONWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy Re-Wire the Subconscious Mind Instantly.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, NLPTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression & Hypnotherapist, Business & Life Coach, Author, Avatar Master, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.   Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 11:46 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/self-sabotaging-self-talk-beliefs-words-set-you-up-failure#comments conscious languaging create your reality NLP words disempower you words program your mind words that sabotage you. words to empower you Mon, 16 May 2011 06:00:00 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 12313 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/words-you-speak-program-your-mind-manifest-your-reality%E2%80%A6 The Words You Speak Program Your Mind & Manifest Your Reality...Over and over and over... This show is taken from Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You © 2005. 2nd Edition Ebook out soon with TYL Workbook and Workshops.  We have had other shows on conscious languaging, bringing the words in your beliefs, thoughts and speech into alignment with your intentions. This practice is a major avenue to creating a happy, peaceful, fulfilled life. The words you speak are this empowering or this disempowering. They activate our thoughts and give form to our beliefs. When we change the words we use to describe the impact of external data received through our five senses, we change the imprints that data makes on the psyche. Feel the difference between "I had the most awful feeling," and "I had a feeling," with the adjective labeling the experience. We react more to our own judgments and labels than we do to the actual event that took place. Since all transformation and creation takes place in the subconscious mind, you cannot change your language choices unless you change the unconscious convictions you have about yourself and life that you are talking about.   Today's Take Away... Implementing the habit of being aware of the words you use, keeps you constantly in touch with yourself as the decision maker, brings up unconscious negative paradigms reflected in your words so you can delete them, and reminds you of the power of your creative intelligence to bring your choices to fruition. This Week's Homework...Write in your Journal every time you use words  that are inconsistent with your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical goals, so you can erase and replace them later. CONTACT INFO: The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137 Instant Relief. NATIONWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy to Re-Wire the Mind. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA Ed, CPRT, CHt, NLPTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Business & Life Management Coach, Author, Avatar Master, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.   Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 12:13 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/words-you-speak-program-your-mind-manifest-your-reality%E2%80%A6#comments conscious languaging create your reality words disempower you or empower you words program your mind Sun, 17 Apr 2011 06:00:00 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 12080 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/heal-your-illness-dysfunction-unhappiness-and-failure-delete-stress-within-your-own-mind Heal Your Illness, Dysfunction, Unhappiness, and Failure:  Delete the Stress Within Your Own Mind This show is taken from Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You © 2005. 2nd Edition Ebook out soon with TYL Workbook and Workshops.  In this third show in the series on the Importance of Your Emotions, we continue today by focusing on what the real life impact is on you and your life from ignoring and repressing your emotions instead of examining them and changing them to stop the endless body mind  feedback demanding more destructive emotions. The self imposed stress from negative belief systems and programs in your subconscious mind is stored in cellular memory causing disease, mental and emotion dysfunction, and a unhappy, unfulfilled life. Contrary to common beliefs, everyone has the ability to access and change their subconscious mind. Today's Take Away... Science has confirmed that it is not a conscious application of stress from external stimuli but the automatic internal stress triggers that are constantly interfacing between the subconscious mind and the brain and body causing illness and dysfunction. This Week's Homework...Write in your Journal every self sabotaging thought, belief, emotion, and action you would like to remove from your mind in order to remove it from your life.   CONTACT INFO: The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137 Instant Relief. NATIONWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy to Re-Wire the Mind. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, NLPTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Business & Life Management Coach, Author, Avatar Master, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.         Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 12:53 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/heal-your-illness-dysfunction-unhappiness-and-failure-delete-stress-within-your-own-mind#comments accessing the subconscious mind change negative unconscious programs instantly Disease emotional problems internal stress mental disorders Tue, 05 Apr 2011 13:00:02 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 11910 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-do-we-change-our-emotional-system How Do We Restructure Our Emotional System?   This show is taken from Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You © 2005. 2nd Edition Ebook out soon with TYL Workbook and Workshops.  By deleting one major mass conscious belief that is negatively impacting your life and the lives of everyone else who believes it, you can immediately begin restructuring seven feelings and emotions permanently. If the world chooses to continue to propagate destructive beliefs based on belief systems engrained in all of us through organized religions, educational indoctrination, and intergenerational programming, let it. But you can make a conscious decision not to further participate in this error consciousness and when you do....the outpicturing of those mass conscious beliefs no longer affects your life.  Today's Take Away... Unconscious triggering makes us react to current life situations from out of date paradigms and the beliefs those triggering programs are based on. By deleting underlying negative beliefs and emotions, the triggering stops. This Week's Homework...Write in your Journal the behaviors that you feel bad about, then note beside each one if you deliberately meant to react and respond to things in that way, or were you triggered with the same response you had when you were previously hurt or threatened by a similar situation in the past. So D for deliberate and T for triggered.   CONTACT INFO: The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137 Instant Relief. NATIONWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy to Re-Wire the Mind. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, TLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Business Coach, Life Management Coach, Author, Avatar Master, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.  Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 13:00 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-do-we-change-our-emotional-system#comments controlling your emotions eliminating emotional blocks healing emotions heals your life mass conscious beliefs negative impact triggered responses Thu, 10 Mar 2011 02:59:56 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 11685 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/emotions-predicators-future-events-current-responses Emotions: Predicators of Future Events & Current Responses This show is taken from Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You © 2005. 2nd Edition Ebook out soon with TYL Workbook and Workshops  NEW PROGRAM FORMAT:  I am in the process of setting up the show to include live interviews and Q & A call-in's from the audience. I will keep you posted. We have been discussing how emotions are our internal guidance system which give us indications when we are out of alignment with our soul's highest intentions, our conscious mind goals, and our authentic self. Recalling that is it through the emotions, how we feel, that we access our deeper consciousness to discover why we react instead of respond to life circumstances, this makes emotions primary to the healing process necessary to actualize our potential. Strong emotions are known to strengthen a program in the subconscious mind causing it to be in an optimal position to be chosen for reference to incoming sensory data. Tracts laid down in the subconscious trigger whenever some similar incident takes place dictating the appropriate hardwired response. No thinking is required. Something happens, we get triggered to repeat and re-experience the same behaviors, emotions, and attitudes in the memory trace that handled previous like incidents. Today's Take Away... Further to understanding how important our emotions are, the emotions created in both the body's cells and the cells of the brain use their chemical output to bind with the cell receptors thus transmitting information to the cells. The subsequent changes within the cell itself are transmitted by nerve impulses and create changes in behaviors, activities and dispositions. This Week's Homework...This is thought to be the method of storing memories and emotions that are too painful to be consciously remembered. Emotional and physical diseases are believed to come from repressed emotions form childhood traumas. This week, locate familiar emotions you experience and record them in your Journal. Put next to each one, possible illnesses you have that you think may stem from the emotion you listed. CONTACT INFO: The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137 Instant Relief. NATIONWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy to Re-Wire the Mind. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, TLT, NLP, Transform Your Life Expert, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Business Coach, Life Management Coach, Author, Avatar Master, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.  Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 13:03 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/emotions-predicators-future-events-current-responses#comments defense mechanisms eliminating emotional blocks healing emotions heals your life realizing dreams and goals reprogram the subconscious mind self fulfillment triggered responses Tue, 01 Mar 2011 01:52:59 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 11480 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/your-subconscious-mind-working-you Is Your Subconscious Mind Working for You? (c) This show is taken from Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You © 2005. 2nd Edition Ebook out soon with TYL Workbook and Workshops  Your dual mind is meant to serve you and your intentions not defeat you or sabotage you. Your subconscious mind was intended to be your auto pilot that brings to fruition every goal implanted in it, to control the autonomic nervous system so you don't have to remind your heart to beat, and to habitualize routine actions so you don't have to keep remembering and figuring out what to do next to accomplish daily tasks like driving. These are just a few of the services it provides. By being the driving force toward the fulfillment of your objectives, monitoring and making physiological functions operate mechanically, forming habits that automatically perform repetitive activities, it frees up enormous time and energy to be creative, intentional, productive and joyful, our natural state. Today's Take Away...Since a child is socialized, programmed and conditioned, how to act and react by the time they are six to seven years old, it would be helpful to take a trip down memory lane. Think of the most common responses to life events your parents had, especially about an area of life that is an issue for you. Then think about the beliefs and lessons you remember learning from your teachers, friends, and religious leaders. This Week's Homework...Record in your Journal these lessons and predispositions you picked up from other people. Next to them, write if they enhance your life or depreciate it. This will be preparation for your deletion and restructuring process.  BIO The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137 Instant Relief. NATIONWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy to Re-Wire the Mind. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, TLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Life Management Coach, Author, Avatar Master, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.  Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 12:05 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/your-subconscious-mind-working-you#comments conscious mind defense mechanisms deletion in de-programming eliminating negative programs repetition in programming reprogram the subconscious mind self fulfillment triggered responses your auto pilot Sat, 12 Feb 2011 20:49:11 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 11247 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/dichotomy-between-conscious-goals-unconscious-programs-self-sabotage The Dichotomy Between Conscious Goals & Unconscious Programs The dichotomy between your dual minds is producing a quandary.... consciously you want something and subconsciously you are being blocked from having it. This show is taken from Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You © 2005. 2nd Edition Ebook out soon with TYL Workbook and Workshops  The self protect identity is one of the strongest of all identities or complexes not only because it is part of our inherent nature, being based on the survival instinct in the most primitive part of our brains, but for those of us with the strongest defense mechanisms, it has been made impenetrable and dominant in the subconscious mind which until recently has been out of our conscious control. They can be any of numerous unconscious mental processes used by the ego to protect against instinctual demands or to reduce anxiety in defense of the conscious mind's homeostasis. Today we are discussing avoidance of shame, anxiety, conflict, loss of self-esteem, or other fearful feelings and  thoughts rather than the handling of unacceptable instincts, desires and inclinations. Today's Take Away...  Realizing that the self protect defensive identity and its associated identities are the only thing stopping you from having the life you want,  doing the work you want to do, and being the person you want to be, getting help to resolve the issue should become automatic. This Week's Homework...in your journal, list every defense mechanism you use and next to it, list the person you use it with most often, beginning with yourself. Then ask someone close to you if they know of any more you use and list those too.  BIO The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137 Instant Relief. NATIONWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy to Re-Wire the Mind. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, TLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Life Management Coach, Author, Avatar Master, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.  Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 13:36 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/dichotomy-between-conscious-goals-unconscious-programs-self-sabotage#comments conscious mind defense mechanisms Denial procrastination projection repression reprogram the subconscious mind triggered automatic responses unconscious unworthiness Mon, 31 Jan 2011 19:26:04 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 11034 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-stop-sabotaging-your-life How to Stop Sabotaging Your Life Reformat your subconscious mind with Restructuring Therapy. This show is taken from Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You ©   We're going to continue our study of the subconscious mind since it is the main manifesting faculty of your life experiences. It is creating your life, dictating your thoughts, feelings, words and actions. We can have every intention of changing the way we behave, getting a new job, controlling our temper, saving money, finding the perfect mate, having more time for our family or exercising and loosing weight.  These are conscious mind intentions that we are aware of, we discuss with friends and family and which we continually re-set as New Year's intentions year after year. We mean to do it all...consciously. So what stops us....the content of the subconscious mind which is oppositional to your conscious mind intentions. Today's Take Away... The subconscious mind sabotages our conscious mind intentions and as long as the programs in it are oppositional to your goal, you will not be able to fulfill that goal.  This Week's Homework...Do a Ben Franklin worksheet by dividing a sheet of paper vertically.  On one side list a goal and opposite to it list what beliefs are blocking that its fulfillment.  BIO The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137 Instant Relief. NATIONWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy to Re-Wire the Mind. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, TLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Life Management Coach, Author, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.  Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 14:38 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-stop-sabotaging-your-life#comments conscious delete sabotaging beliefs and programs goals habitual mind modeling reprogram the subconscious mind self worth triggered automatic responses unconscious your auto pilot Mon, 24 Jan 2011 21:16:25 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10929 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/subconscious-mind-operates-law-attraction The Subconscious Mind Operates the Law of Attraction Most people mistakenly believe if they change what they are consciously aware of, that will change their lives.   If you want to change the quality and content of your life, you must change the quality and content of your subconscious mind first which is the originator of your life. And secondly, you must begin to live more consciously and deliberately than unconsciously out of that tainted subconscious mind.  Today's Take Away... Until we are conscious we will never change ourselves from the inside out, beginning with reformatting the subconscious mind, the seat of all our spontaneous reactions and behaviors. And until we change the unknown operational beliefs creating these reactions and behaviors, we will never change our lives. This Week's Homework...Make a commitment to yourself, a New Year's Resolution, or a goal to take one full minute out of every hour of your waking day to become fully conscious of what is going on around you, what you are thinking, what you are feeling, and what you are doing. Note it in your Journal for the day. At the end of the week tally up how many times you had the same events, thoughts, feelings, and actions taking place. Then you decide the value of being in the moment fully present. You can send them to me at easytherapy@q.com or on my blog on thewin and we can start discussing how to get rid of them and convert them into positive programs to change the quality of your life.  BIO The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today.   Mental & Emotional Erasers Are Only Available At The Life Management Center. easytherapy@q.com. Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You 2005.  2nd Edition Ebook Out Soon.  Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression & Hypno Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.   Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 11:14 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/subconscious-mind-operates-law-attraction#comments change your life deliberately create habitual mind law of attraction multi-tasking staying present in the moment subconscious mind unconscious behaviors and reactions we are unconscious 80% of the time Mon, 17 Jan 2011 03:52:11 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10821 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/subconscious-minds-influence-life Today's show is called The Subconscious Mind's influence on Life. This show is taken from my 2005 book, Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You ©  FOR ALL THOSE WHO HAVE ASKED ABOUT THE BOOK, I WANT TO REITERATE THAT THE BOOK IS SOLD OUT BUT I AM PUTTING IT ONLINE AS AN EBOOK SHORTLY AND WILL BE POSTING THE LINK TO ORDER IT. Thank you so much for your interest and patience. We will address the functions of the subconscious mind and how to begin living in the moment instead of sourcing out of the past contained in this unconscious data bank. The most important thing about the subconscious mind we can note is that it is the part of consciousness that is interacting with the universe and thus attracting and creating our life experiences. By listening to these shows you are moving out of habitual hidden patterns and into the realm of taking control of your mind and therefore taking control of your life. Once you understand how the mind, brain, heart, and body work together, you will have a more realistic comprehension of why you do what you do, make the choices you make, and have the preferences and fears you currently have. Please go to thelifemanagementcenter.com for more information about me or my work or email me at easytherapy@q.com.  The Life Management Center is the only place you can receive Restructuring Therapy, which erases the effects of emotional and mental programs, traumas and beliefs so you can have the life you want to have and be the person you want to be. Today's Take Away... This weeks show gives you information on the subconscious mind and how it works and influences every moment of our lives, especially as our auto-pilot. This Week's Homework...Re-listen to the show and note in your journal what goals you installed in your subconscious mind throughout your life and check if they are still valid for your goals today. Keep that list of former goals which no longer provide you with what you are striving for now so that you can delete those goals and create your updated goals. In this way there will be no conflict in the automatic part of your consciousness. You can send them to me at easytherapy@q.com or on my blog on thewin and we can start discussing how to get rid of them and convert them into positive goals to fulfill your life. BIO The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today.   Mental & Emotional Erasers Are Only Available At The Life Management Center. easytherapy@q.com. Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You 2005.  2nd Edition EBook Out Soon.  Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression & Hypno Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.     Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 12:59 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/subconscious-minds-influence-life#comments auto pilot automatic responses changing thinking patterns current events goal oriented habitual mind living in the moment living in the past trigger Tue, 11 Jan 2011 22:57:58 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10780 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/hidden-beliefs-programs-prevent-you-getting-what-you-want-out-life Today's show is called Hidden Beliefs & Programs Prevent You From Getting What You Want Out Of Life. This show is taken from my book, Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You, ©2005 We will begin to study more specifically the reasons your life is turning out the way it is. This show is full of basic information most of us didn't know until we started to work on ourselves and realized we weren't making much progress. This whole book is about learning why we experience things we don't want to and how to stop it. Please go to thelifemanagementcenter.com ror more information about me or my work or email me at easytherapy@q.com. The Life Management Center is the only place you can receive Restructuring Therapy, which erases the effects of emotional and mental programs, traumas and beliefs so you can have the life you want to have and be the person you want to be. Today's Take Away... This weeks show gives you the reasons the law of attract works and why it doesn't work. It sites science, religion, metaphysics and consciousness studies that are all in alignment today to demonstrate that your own mind is indeed outpicturing as your life. This Week's Homework...Re-listen to the show and note in your journal what old beliefs you had that you now realize are not true. Also note the three most important new pieces of information you got from listening to today's show and send them to me at easytherapy@q.com. BIO The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today.   Mental & Emotional Erasers Are Only Available At The Life Management Center. easytherapy@q.com. Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You 2005.  2nd Edition Ebook Out Soon.  Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.     Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 13:33 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/hidden-beliefs-programs-prevent-you-getting-what-you-want-out-life#comments Abraham beliefs about yourself change your beliefs change your life labels law of attraction personal responsibility worthiness Mon, 03 Jan 2011 00:26:24 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10643 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/free-yourself-limiting-programs-beliefs Today's show is titled Free Yourself from Limiting Programs & Beliefs. It is part of the Stop Sabotaging Your Life series we are doing.   This show is taken from my book, Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You, ©2005 Here are some more topics we will highlight during this series. Man's mind is so intricately inter-related and intertwined with the universe, so interconnected to All That Is, that it is capable of transforming energy particles into waves of information that inform and create the very essence of his own thoughts. Today's Take Away... In order to stop random events from taking control of your life, The solution is to create deliberately from your conscious mind thoughts which you intentionally send out to create intentional goals. This Week's Homework... Having ample proof in the enormous difference in outcomes, even to altering DNA encoding, between negative thoughts and positive thoughts, be mindful this week where your consciousness is and make note of it in your journal.   BIO The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today.   Mental & Emotional Erasers Are Only Available At The Life Management Center. easytherapy@q.com. Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You 2005.  2nd Edition Ebook Out Soon.  Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.     Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 12:52 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/free-yourself-limiting-programs-beliefs#comments changing DNA encoding creating deliberately genetic determinism instant relief law of attraction Mind negative thoughts universe why can’t I have what I want willingness Mon, 20 Dec 2010 05:01:39 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10515 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-stop-sabotaging-your-life-part-i Today's show is titled How to Stop Sabotaging Your Life - Part I.  We will be doing this series for the next month. This show is taken from my 2005 book, Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You During this series of shows, I am going to explain some scientific facts and metaphysical principles in everyday language and their relevance to your life. When you understand your mind, you understand your life. Some of the topics we will cover are: Stop letting life happen to you...take control of your mind which is the same as taking control of your life. What is the subconscious mind, its content, and how does it influence your daily life. It is your subconscious mind that is creating your life not your conscious mind. It is this largest part of consciousness that interfaces with the universe and activates the Law of Attraction. By re-programming the subconscious mind you can reprogram your life. The difference between going unconscious and living unconsciously. Molecules of emotions and the energy initiated by them create your expectations and expectations based on memories set up future events for you to experience. Positive emotional responses to life are also stored in the subconscious mind to be called up when needed to manifest deliberately. The more negative responses you can delete and replace with positive responses to life, the easier life becomes for you. En-utero, consciousness downloads mother's environment and her psychological pre-dispositions. The fetus makes gestational adaptations to life that can become lifelong attitudes and beliefs even before it is born. Today's Take Away... As you begin to realize it is your own multi-leveled mind that is creating and attracting every aspect of your reality, you will begin to handle life's challenges as your own creations and the blame and fault finding life of judgment will stop being your modus operandi. This Week's Homework...Listen to the show a few more times and note in your journal anything you want to ask me about and I will explain that first on the next show. Send those questions to me at easytherapy@q.com.   BIO The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today.   Mental & Emotional Erasers Are Only Available At The Life Management Center. easytherapy@q.com. Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You 2005.  2nd Edition Ebook Out Soon.   Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, TLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.     Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 00:52 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-stop-sabotaging-your-life-part-i#comments attitudes creating your reality dispositions expectations set up events how do we get programmed optimist pessimist programming unconscious living what is the subconscious mind why do things happen to you Mon, 13 Dec 2010 04:58:37 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10442 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/finding-real-life-integrating-heart-mind Today's show is titled Finding Real Life: Integrating the Heart & Mind  This is the fourth and last in the series about Your Emotional Guidance System. This show is taken from my 2005 Transform Your Life Instantly book and 1999 Gifts From the Father: God's Plan for His Children's Happiness. So resuming where we left off, sacred texts tell us that the Creator intended man to inherently know right from wrong, humanity from inhumanity, generosity from greed and unity from separateness. He made sure the creatures made in His image would never be without this integral handbook for living. God wrote the laws on the hearts of man, "laws" meaning that innate awareness of our oneness with all that is, and the consequential virtues implied by that oneness. The heart's normal outflow of love, empathy, compassion, decency, and integrity when dealing with the created universe He left in our care, left unhampered is all He desires of his custodians.  Authentic man knows that life is only sustainable if everyone's best efforts are directed toward outcomes that support and nurture all of creation which can only be accomplished by following the wisdom of the heart's intelligence. The heart's understanding can go where the mind cannot comprehend. The heart desires union and the divine flow of synchronicity with the mind of man but the mind gets distracted with more pragmatic goals. If man would but follow his feelings and intuitions instead of solely his mind, he would not know stress, depression, lack, fear, guilt, or shame. Tuning into your feelings connects you to the divine in you, your soul self that resides in the heart center. There resides all the comfort, love and approval you will ever need which was the divine set up. There should be no empty place in your being that longs to be filled for it is always full of the Divine's unending love for you and longing for your companionship. Love seeks itself with your heart now, not in another place in the future if you earn it. Today's addictive society offers no compensation for a person who is not in touch with his heart center. The addictions to love, numbing out, and altered consciousness speak loudly to this emptiness that is sensed by the soul when it has no knowledge that the Beloved waits for relationship with it within the depth of its own heart. Beyond all these gifts of the heart centered life, there is the function of feelings as your emotional guidance system. They signal us when we are out of alignment with our higher self, the self that can create and attract whatever you want in life because it knows no limits. It is unlimited creative intelligence and as such, as soon as you bring your mind into alignment with it, everything you desire manifests without effort. Source self is unconditional love fulfilling your every desire for approval and validation in its knowing it is divinely whole complete and perfectly one with the Creator. Having the ability to deliberately create your dreams is enough of an incentive to stay in contact with your heart center and the emotions flowing from it.   By noticing how you feel and reaching for a better feeling by focusing your attention on your intention for goodness, truth, and beauty, your thoughts will match the frequencies of your Authentic Self and flow out to the universe to manifest. It is done in consciousness immediately and there is no way to undo it. You can block the good you created in that moment of alignment but it is still on automatic create for the future. All you have to do is re-align with it and the more often you do that, the faster your desires are brought to you. You can also slip into the state of consciousness of your source self and create instantly from this state. This self contains only positive life supporting feelings and surety of your deservedness. In its constant communication with the brain, scientific evidence indicates that the heart sends our brains wide-ranging emotional and intuitive signals. Our hearts may well be the "intelligent force" behind our intuitive thoughts and feelings and if this is the case, then a balanced life of living from the heart and the head is no longer a challenge or an impossible task. This is the most remarkable conclusion we can draw about how to live the Real Life. With scientific discoveries about the real nature of heart intelligence, and recognition that the heart is the main source of emotions, we can view our emotional guidance system with new confidence in its ability to fulfill its promise. Today's Take Away... With scientific discoveries about the real nature of heart intelligence, and recognition that the heart is the main source of emotions, we can view our emotional guidance system with new confidence in its ability to fulfill its promise. This Week's Homework...Instead of journaling this week, make a video on your computer and watch it several times this week. Read from this show the most meaningful words that impacted your consciousness. Then play it back and watch the expression on your face and your body language as you say the words, absorb their meaning for your life. Go into the silence and listen for your heart's message to you. BIO The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today.   Mental & Emotional Erasers Are Only Available At The Life Management Center. easytherapy@q.com. Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You 2005.  2nd Edition Ebook Out Soon.  Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, TLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master. Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 13:51 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/finding-real-life-integrating-heart-mind#comments alignment with Authentic Self emotional guidance system feelings heart centered life heart intelligence heart seat of emotions intuition law of attraction living from the heart Mon, 06 Dec 2010 02:13:17 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10370 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/balanced-life-living-heart-head A Balanced Life: Living from the Heart & the Head This is the third in the series about Your Emotional Guidance System. This week we will talk about using this internal guidance system by deciding the difference between living from your heart and living from your head or the balanced perspective of living from a combination of both seats of knowledge, intelligence, knowingness, and emotional regulation. It is also taken from my book Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make The Law Of Attraction Work For You Instead Of Against You© 2005.  The difference between living from our hearts and living from our minds, as we use this phrase today, seems vast. It is the difference between living from our gut feelings, our intuition and the wisdom of the heart's intelligence and living from the largest part of our minds, the subconscious mind which is filled with unknown programs that trigger automatically causing us to think things and do things that we do not even understand our motivations for and are not always even aware of. If the heart is the center of life and the fountainhead of our deepest personal consciousness, then living in balance with its wisdom and the body mind system is a major goal to be achieved in life. Getting out of our heads and into our hearts would not be considered such a huge transition if we recalled that the heart is the core of our decision making processes and the spring from which our emotions flow.  Heart Math tells us that the heart has an intelligence of its own and that in fact it is the first intellect that external data is processed through. The hearts intelligence system is present all over the body and totally integrated with the body mind spirit with which it is in constant communication.  Feelings are the touchstone of the heart center. Our feelings are put there to let us know when we are congruent with the goals of our Authentic Self before the programming. And it is our emotions that tell us when we are not being our real selves, not connected to our unlimited creator selves for whom it is impossible to be dishonorable, greedy, unworthy, uncompassionate, or mean spirited. There are no exceptions to the quality of every soul's Authentic true self. All know they are part of God, source beings creating it all and at the same time being it all, while they deliberately infuse every thought and action with the love that is their divine essence. In its constant communication with the brain, scientific evidence indicates that the heart sends our brains wide-ranging emotional and intuitive signals. Our hearts may well be the "intelligent force" behind our intuitive thoughts and feelings and if this is the case, then a balanced life of living from the heart and the head is no longer a challenge or an impossible task. This is the most remarkable conclusion we can draw about how to live a balanced life. With scientific discoveries about the real nature of heart intelligence, and recognition that the heart is the main source of emotions, we can view our emotional guidance system with new confidence in its ability to fulfill its promise.   Today's Take Away Lesson... Science tells us we can learn to modulate and manage our emotions by staying aware of and tuned into our heart's intelligence. Perhaps we can restructure the health of our emotional systems by listening to our own insights and following our internal wisdom. By bringing balance and harmony to the entire feeling self and restoring it to coherence with our goals in life, we will be able to easily and effortlessly stay in alignment with the Authentic Self that knows only wholeness, wellness, creativity, value, and immortality. Ironically, science has itself now placed importance on developing a personal commitment to following our hearts. This Week's Homework.... is to write in your Journal  every time you felt a feeling come up and honored it by stopping long enough to decide if it was contributing to the quality of your life or blocking you reaching your life goals. You can also list the emotions that came up but that you stuffed instead of learning from them. BIO The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today.   Mental & Emotional Erasers Are Only Available At The Life Management Center. easytherapy@q.com. Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You 2005.  2nd Edition Ebook Out Soon.  Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.         Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 15:20 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/balanced-life-living-heart-head#comments emotional guidance system feelings heart centered life heart intelligence heart seat of emotions intuition law of attraction living from the heart instead of the head Fri, 03 Dec 2010 20:32:23 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10363 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/life-about-feeling-not-thinking Life Is About Feeling Not Thinking is a continuation of the last show on Your Emotional Guidance System. We'll be reviewing some of the concepts from last week. It is also taken from my book Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make The Law Of Attraction Work For You Instead Of Against You© 2005.  The gift of your internal guidance system is one of the gifts the Father imbued us with when he created each of our souls.  It is meant to alert you when you are thinking, feeling, languaging, and acting in a way that is oppositional to what you're trying to create and attract. This simplifies our lives for us. You never have to figure out why you feel like you do or what's gone wrong or what to do. The answer to the why question is the zen attitude...because. It is because it is. Why doesn't matter in the larger scale of things. You just have to adjust your vibrations to match the vibrations your higher self resonates with.   There's no one to blame but yourself if things don't go well for you. If you are dissatisfied, afraid, discouraged or depressed over the way your life is unfolding, then there is only one avenue of relief for you. You must live more in the moment and less in an unconscious state in order to be aware of the messages you are sending out into a universe that operates using resonance as the law of causality.  If you continue to stay stuck in dissatisfaction, fear, discouragement or depression, you are guaranteeing that more things to elicit these same negative emotions will be sent back to you by the universe. The law of resonance and attraction is not alterable, you can't prevent it, you can't wish it away, or pray its effects away. Your perceptions based on your filters are the cause of your life experiences and the longer you continue to frame up your life based on self defeating filters, the longer you create defeat. Your own perceptions literally change the very biochemistry that alters and dictates the gene selection of your DNA moment by moment. So far from being destined to repeat the patterns inherited and modeled for you, you are totally free and empowered to rearrange your entire body mind predisposition by rearranging your mental constructs. This is easy with today's advanced technology. Today's take away...we were given everything we need including our emotional guidance system to live happy, peaceful, successful lives This week's Homework is to write in your Journal your perceptions and beliefs about the world and about yourself. Then determine if those beliefs hinder or help you to live a wonderfully fulfilling life.   BIO The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today. TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING MENTAL & EMOTIONAL ERASERS IS ONLY AVAILABLE AT THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. easytherapy@q.com.   Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.       Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 13:15 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/life-about-feeling-not-thinking#comments emotional guidance system feelings genetic predestination law of attraction reach for a better thought tell a better story vibratory frequencies Tue, 16 Nov 2010 00:40:16 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10123 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/we%E2%80%99re-supposed-feel-out-way-through-life-not-think-our-way Our Emotional Guidance System Part 1 Excerpted From Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental & Emotional Erasers Make Your Mind Work For You Instead of Against You © 2005, 2010, Adele Tartaglia You're either creating what you do want or creating what you don't want based on which part of your consciousness you are in alignment with; your subconscious mind which is seventy- five per cent negative or your higher self which is 100% positive. It is your feelings that tell you which one you are aligning with in the moment. And your feelings are based on your thoughts. It is easy to determine if your thoughts and feelings are serving you or not. When you are feeling any of the lower energy emotions your life force is constricted which blocks your access to happiness, security, love, and empowerment. When you're feeling the higher energy emotions there is an open ongoing flow of positive life enhancing energy which produces good fortune and the life of your dreams. In order to create our way out of, or around, any situation in life that presents itself, we must first become aware of what it was in our own minds that created it in the first place, it is essential that we pay attention to what we are feeling. Awareness of how we feel about things is a huge cue as to what underlying programs produced the situation at hand. Most of time we know what we think about things at least on a conscious level, if not on the subconscious level, but we often mask our feelings, repress them and deny them due to our cultural conditioning. The vibrational frequencies attached to pain, trauma, and fear are damaging and hindering to our functionality. They send out very strong negative impulses that the universe resonates with and responds to with matching negative events.   We know that it is the programs and beliefs stored in the unconscious that are interfacing with the universe and attracting events to us, not our conscious mind goals. Our feelings tell us how far off course we have strayed. In the beginning we knew we were part of the Creator who created our souls and we were in touch with our attributes as offspring of that universal mind. After years of intergenerational and societal conditioning, we forget that we are made in the image of unlimited creativity, infinite intelligence, unconditional love, and unimaginable worthiness. We begin to believe the stories told about us, the labels put on us, and the failed results of our efforts to do well. We forget these beliefs are not ours, are not true, and do not serve us or the world we live in. When we notice we are feeling negative emotions such as guilt, shame, unworthiness, insecurity, powerlessness, antipathy, despair, pessimism, frustration, impatience, anger, blame, hostility, jealousy, revenge, hatred, rage, irritation, disappointment, grief, doubt, worry, discouragement, fear, overwhelm, or depression... A light should go off in our minds that says reset... reset our thinking patterns and our emotional system to align more within the range of vibrations that our higher self is always emanating. It is only by aligning our human mind vibrational rates with our divine mind vibrational rates that we can bring to us all that we desire in life. This is a deliberate focusing of our energies and attention on the positive, the enlightened, the hopeful. It is a deliberate creation on our part. Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today. Restructuring Therapy using mental & emotional erasers is only available at the life management center. easytherapy@q.com.   Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.     Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 15:22 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/we%E2%80%99re-supposed-feel-out-way-through-life-not-think-our-way#comments aligning your vibrations with your source energy self emotional guidance system higher energy emotions human self law of attraction locate and delete negative programs lower energy emotions source energy self subconscious 75% negative Mon, 08 Nov 2010 21:55:52 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 10018 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/why-we-try-change-people It's never about the other person....there's no one doing it to us....every things an inside job. No matter what we are experiencing, no matter how it appears to be someone else's fault, someone else's personality defect, someone else's manipulation or lie, it isn't. Everything in our lives sources from the content in our own multi-leveled mind. The beliefs, programs, memories, expectations, and emotions stored in our data bank, our subconscious mind, trigger in response to every event and are set on automatic create to continue the old operating systems, habitual reactions, biases, and goals that were installed there beginning from conception. When we change our sabotaging beliefs, our habitual thinking patterns, and routine behaviors, our life changes, our moods change, our expectations change, and we attract what we want to be attracting...our expectations being the prime force in creating and attracting. We get what we expect. We all have expectations based on our beliefs and frames of reference about what a person should be, a woman or man should be, a wife or husband should be, a child should be, a parent should be. Until you release those personal biased "Shoulds" you will have expectations of how they should be or must be in order for you to be happy, stay in the relationship, continue to love them, etc. And when they are not that, you get to feel bad. Then you get to play the denial projection game of it's not my fault I feel bad, am miserable, am incapacitated, am a failure....it's your fault.  Here's this week's lesson to take away ... It's never about the other person....there's no one doing it to us....every things an inside job. Everything in our lives sources from the content in our own multi-leveled mind. Your homework is to write in your journal your analysis of your expectations for the people you love. Think about the way you treat them, label them, and try to control them in order to make your life better.  Then note 4 reasons why this will never work to improve your life based on today's show.  Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    NATIONWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Rewire Your Brain Today. TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING RESTRUCTURING THERAPY - AVAILABLE ONLY AT THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. easytherapy@q.com. Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make Your Mind Work for You Instead of Against You © 2005.  Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master. Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 16:55 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/why-we-try-change-people#comments blaming denial and projection habitual thinking patterns inner peace programming we get what we expect when you’re right that makes them wrong worthiness issues Mon, 25 Oct 2010 03:33:44 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 9772 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/ptsd-recovery-without-reliving-it Today we're going to talk about what PTSD is and the most effective treatment for it.   If you have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), the symptoms don't decrease over time. You don't feel a little better each day. In fact, you may start to feel worse. But PTSD doesn't always develop in the hours or days following a traumatic event, although this is most common. For some people, the symptoms of PTSD take weeks, months, or even years to develop. Events that threaten death or serious injury can cause intense, long-lasting distress if left unattended. Experiencing or witnessing traumatic events can affect people long after the experience is over. Intense fear, helplessness, or horror experienced during the traumatic event can haunt a person unless they are removed from consciousness. While everyone experiences PTSD differently, there are three main types of symptoms, as listed below. Re-experiencing the traumatic event Avoidance and emotional numbing Increased arousal Other common symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder Anger and irritability Guilt, shame, or self-blame Substance abuse Depression and hopelessness Suicidal thoughts and feelings Feeling alienated and alone Feelings of mistrust and betrayal Headaches, stomach problems, chest pain Traditional treatment may include psychotherapy (supportive and exposure therapy) and antidepressants. Restructuring therapy does not use these techniques but relies on reformatting the mind itself toward to more functional integration. Restructuring therapy is able to permanently relieve the underlying fears, triggers, traumas, and memories that create and sustain the terrors, hypervigilance, nightmares, flashbacks, anxiety, and intense physical reactions.  Rather than making the person be re-traumatized and re-imprinted by re-living the experience multiple times with behavior therapy or psychiatric exposure therapy, a new medical modality has been developed that deletes the underlying causes of PTSD that does not use flooding and therefore is non-imprinting and non-traumatic. Please go to The Life Management Center website below for more information on PTSD and PTSD Recovery Without Reliving It. Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137  WORLDWIDE PHONE/ONLINE Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today. TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING RESTRUCTURING THERAPY IS ONLY AVAILABLE AT THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. easytherapy@q.com.   Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.     Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 13:04 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/ptsd-recovery-without-reliving-it#comments flashbacks hypervigilance non-imprinting non-traumatic overcoming anxiety PTSD PTSD recovery without re-living it restructuring therapy traumas triggers Wed, 20 Oct 2010 20:15:31 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 9732 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/what-emotional-manipulators-look Today we're going to talk about the ways emotional manipulators test for vulnerabilities to find victims and the characteristics of these victims. We're going to discuss the ten ways manipulators test people when looking for people to take advantage of. We will also go into nine basic personality types that are easy targets for manipulators. If you find yourself among these types, don't feel bad about it. We have almost nothing to do with our programming, the beliefs installed in our subconscious minds in childhood, or the   assumptions we come to as a result of modeling by our parents. What you can do is take responsibility as an adult for the beliefs you have, the thoughts you think, the words you use, and the actions you take in life. Here's this week's lesson to take away ... we all have beliefs that are not serving us and that set us up to have unsuccessful relationships.  Movies and books abound with this misinformation. Your homework is to listen to today's program again with your journal in your hand and note down any of these personality types and magical thoughts that might fit you. Honor yourself and love yourself enough to seek the guidance you need to alter these beliefs that are leading you astray so you can begin to enjoy your life and have a supportive loving relationship.   Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137    WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today. TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING RESTRUCTURING THERAPY IS ONLY AVAILABLE AT THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. easytherapy@q.com.   Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Life Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master. Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 18:02 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/what-emotional-manipulators-look#comments codependent emotional manipulators victims loss low self esteem magical thoughts of victims martyrs overly responsible unappreciated Mon, 11 Oct 2010 02:16:15 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 9538 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/emotional-manipulation-relationships This is perhaps the most important area of Emotional Manipulation because of the constancy of its influence in our lives. Our partners and spouses influence us in dynamic ways, subtle ways, overt ways and covert ways. In order to maintain mental clarity about the accuracy of the reality we share with them, and maintain the health of our own ego structure, we must determine if their picture of the events in our lives together make sense, are real, and are truthful. We must also discern for ourselves or with professional help, how their descriptions and labels of us as people are accurate or skewed by their own projection and denial, deliberate undermining of us, guilting, victimizing and the employment of other manipulative tactics. Here are twelve manipulation tactics: Charm, Reason, Coercion, Silent Treatment, Debasement, Regression, Responsibility Invocation, Reciprocity, Monetary Rewards, Pleasure Induction, Social Comparison, and Hardball (an amalgam of threats, lies and violence.) If you've been undergoing these kinds of abuse, threats or manipulations, please seek professional guidance in how to detach yourself permanently from the emotional manipulator in your life, increase your survivor awareness, and learn the tools of the survivor. These techniques are the topic for our next show. There are viable ways to stop being the target of an emotional manipulator and take back control of your life. Here's this week's lesson to take away ... if any of the tactics mentioned in the last three shows sound too familiar to you, listen to the shows again and note which ones ring true. This week for homework note in your journal any of the following tools of emotional manipulators: Guilt Trip, Victimization, Word Manipulation, Cognitive Distortions, Gas Lighting, Dependencies, Narcissism, Entitlement, Covert Badgering, Overt Badgering, Hiding Behind a Mask, Irritability, Triangulation, Pretending to be Ill or Suicidal, Provocative Behavior, Constantly Misunderstood, Disappointed, Attacking Self Esteem after Making You Special, Smoke Screen, and Enticements. Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137  WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  Http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today using Emotional and Mental Erasers. The easy way to re-format your subconscious mind. TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING RESTRUCTURING THERAPY IS ONLY AVAILABLE AT THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. easytherapy@q.com Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Ericksonian Hypnotherapist, Consciousness Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.   Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 16:41 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/emotional-manipulation-relationships#comments badgering cognitive distortions emotional manipulation guilt trip survivor awareness survivor tools threatening triangulating victimization Thu, 07 Oct 2010 03:36:28 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 9488 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-recognize-emotional-manipulators-your-life Today we're going to resume talking about the various techniques and methods people use who want to manipulate you and control your life. We're discussing today powerful dependents who plead neediness, projectors who deny negative traits and project them onto you, triangulators who tell stories in order to turn others against you so they are all you have, blasters who carry on to avoid confrontation about something they are doing, intentional mis-interpreters who twist the facts to confuse you, the flirt who has to be the center of attention, and the iron fist bully who believes force is justified to get what they want. We're through with they types of manipulators, most being a combination of various types. We are moving on to manipulation in marriage, magical thinking, and cognitive distortions next week. Here's this week's lesson to take away ...if someone in your life is threatening you physically or verbally, if someone is projecting their personality traits onto you disclaiming them themselves, if someone is coming on as helpless dependent who insists on their way, there is a good chance you are being emotionally manipulated. This week for homework start a journal and note every time one of the techniques we have discussed in the last two weeks has taken place in your life. Put the date by it so you notice how often it is done. You can listen to the show as often as you want to if you suspect you are being manipulated.   Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137  WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  Http://thelifemanagementcenter.com Rewire Your Brain Today using Emotional and Mental Erasers. The easy way to re-format your subconscious mind. TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING RESTRUCTURING THERAPY IS ONLY AVAILABLE AT THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. Easytherapy@q.com   Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Consciousness Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.     Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 19:02 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-recognize-emotional-manipulators-your-life#comments bullying co-dependency helplessness inferiority complexes locate and delete cognitive distortions magical thinking projection Wed, 29 Sep 2010 02:06:31 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 9277 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/emotional-manipulation-how-avoid-it Today we're starting a series on emotional manipulation, how to recognize it, how to avoid it, how to extricate yourself from it. Emotional manipulation is defined as the act of manipulating another into an intense desired emotional state, such as love, passion, or anger [in order to take advantage of them.] We will cover types of manipulations such as learning what someone needs and wants and pretending to have those attributes in order to make them fall in love with you, and things like emotional blackmail using fear, obligation, and guilt to control you. This is a very powerful form of manipulation in which the person threatens to punish you, usually with loss of their love, if you don't comply with how they want you to behave. We also started to examine the blended types of manipulators and their motivations, today beginning with the constant victim stance they take using one-upmanship, cognitive distortions, and magical thinking. I consider this such a common malady and source of distress, guilt, and unhappiness in our society that we are going to spend a few weeks on this subject so that we really get a working understanding of what to watch out for and how to identify people who are manipulators.   Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137  NATIONWIDE Phone & Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com     Rewire Your Brain Today. TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING RESTRUCTURING THERAPY Available Exclusively at THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. easytherapy@q.com Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Consciousness Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master. Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 15:56 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/emotional-manipulation-how-avoid-it#comments emotional blackmail emotional manipulation gullibility narcissism psychological manipulation. victimhood Mon, 20 Sep 2010 02:37:29 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 9113 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-change-biases-are-out-picturing-our-lives We have been discussing how our own minds and the programming stored in our subconscious and conscious minds influences the kind of life we are living. We will continue examining how our beliefs create our realities in particular our beliefs about our bodies and ourselves. Today we will touch on how to stop these old beliefs, programs and expectations, most of which are not ours anyway, from continuing to structure our behaviors and our thinking so we can actually take control of our lives and do what we want to do. Some of these expectations and objectives we have been carrying around since childhood are doable and some are not even realistic for us to attempt. Those are the ones that set us up immediately for failure and thus disappointment in ourselves the minute we set them. In addition to perceptions about who we are and what we should accomplish in our lives, we also have huge multi-layered belief systems, perceptions, and preconceived notions about bodies in general and our body specifically. Here's this week's lesson to take away... we are so completely filled with our family's and society's biases, beliefs and programs by the age of seven, we seldom stop and analyze what we as individuals really believe. This week try to ascertain which of your beliefs you actually think are true and have merit and which ones are family beliefs that you no longer think are valid. This is Adele Tartaglia, the Transform Your Life Expert, signing off.  Until we talk again, create only good things for yourself and the planet. Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137  WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Rewire Your Brain Today. TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING RESTRUCTURING THERAPY IS ONLY AVAILABLE AT THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. easytherapy@q.com  Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Consciousness Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.   Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 12:30 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-change-biases-are-out-picturing-our-lives#comments beliefs expectations change your biases and change your life install new programs that are aligned with the life you want. perceptions Mon, 13 Sep 2010 00:47:42 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 8959 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/are-we-married-our-mates-or-projections-our-parents Today's show is part of How Our Perceptions, Beliefs and Expectations Create Our Reality series. We will discuss our fears and assumptions about our mates based on transferences of our mothers and fathers personalities that we are projecting onto our spouses. This week you were thinking about how you may be seeing your mother in your wife or your father in your husband without any real cause to do so and without realizing you are doing it. The fact that our expectations set up our reality just compounds the issue. We are conditioned to expect men and women to act certain ways because of the way dad and mom acted. It's the only frame of reference we have during the time in our lives when our data base was being programmed. Not only do we project mom's persona onto our wives and dad's onto our husbands, but we also transfer our treatment from the authority figure in our childhood onto our mates and expect and create the same treatment from them. The relationship we had with mom or dad may well end up being similar to the relationship we have with our mates. Some common negative projections that are transferred to mates that are directly attributable to the person's parents, are that men are dominating, scary, and punishing thus causing the woman to continue the identity of people pleaser to self protect; that women don't appreciate anything the men in their lives do for them causing the men who believe this, to give up and not even try to help out at home or do special things for them for fear of rejection. Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137   WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING RESTRUCTURING THERAPY IS ONLY AVAILABLE AT THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. easytherapy@q.com   One Restructuring Session is worth ten years of talk therapy. Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Consciousness Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master. Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 10:34 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/are-we-married-our-mates-or-projections-our-parents#comments beliefs create reality make the Law of Attraction work for you marriages projecting onto our partners relationships Transform Your Life Instantly Mon, 06 Sep 2010 00:39:52 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 8860 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-our-attitudes-biases-color-our-experiences Here are some excerpts from today's show. Even more than what others think about us, which is a major concern of almost everyone, the truth is, it is own attitudes and beliefs that are making life rewarding or challenging. Your attitudes and biases are setting up your relationships. We transfer the beliefs about, and the frames we have on, our parents, both negative and positive ones, to other men and women through out our lives. Depending on how we experienced mother, as kind and loving, or harsh and critical, we project those same biases onto other women which continue to color and filter our interactions with the female gender. As we discussed last week, your understanding of "reality," as well as your attitude about the reality you are experiencing, even conditions and limits your ability to be aware of what is taking place around you. Even more importantly, it decreases you ability to be aware of what is happening to you. If your boyfriend professes his love but treats you badly, it is important for you to be able to see the difference between his words and his actions and take appropriate measures to look after yourself.  Bio The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly Call 480/706-8137 for Instant Relief. WORLDWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy to Re-Wire the Mind. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com  The MENTAL ERASERS OF RESTRUCTURING THERAPY Are Available Here Only! 1 Session is Worth 10 Years of Talk Therapy Custom Designed Protocols. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Personality Disorders, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, TLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Consciousness Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Tours Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master.  http://tools2changeyourlife.com; http://livingintentionally.org       Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 10:31 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-our-attitudes-biases-color-our-experiences#comments attitudes biases filters frame of reference perceptions projection reference points transference Mon, 30 Aug 2010 03:34:13 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 8728 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-we-interpret-life-alters-our-life Your own beliefs are creating how you perceive life. Your interpretations of life, of yourself, and others influence everything in your world. Your attitudes determine if you roll with the challenges seeing them as opportunities you are grateful for....or as bad things happening to you that you don't deserve and are resisting. Mental and emotional filters cloud our judgments with untested prejudices we've inherited from our families, mass conscious beliefs, fears, and assumptions based on previous experiences. Your perceptual reality, your viewpoint, includes your filters through which every real time event is filtered depending on what the bias set is of your filter. Emotional operating systems based in negativity result in a negative frame on life thus drawing it to you. Oppositionally an emotional operating system based on positive beliefs create a positive frame of reference that attracts to you rewards and happiness.  There is also a naive unrealistic filter some people have been programmed with.   By understanding these premises, you learn to recognize when sabotaging or unrealistic beliefs are behind your everyday events. You are then able to take steps to stop thinking those kinds of thoughts by deleting them and revising them. Bio The Life Management Center.  Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137   WORLDWIDE Phone/Online Sessions Available.  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE INSTANTLY USING RESTRUCTURING THERAPY IS ONLY AVAILABLE AT THE LIFE MANAGEMENT CENTER. easytherapy@q.com   Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHT, NLTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Consciousness Coach, Author, Radio Show Host, Power Places Empowerment Facilitator, Avatar Master. Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 08:21 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/how-we-interpret-life-alters-our-life#comments attitudes beliefs change your life filters frame of reference happy perceptions reference points success Fri, 03 Sep 2010 19:48:23 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 8845 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/why-happening-me-again-law-attraction   As promised in the last show, we are going to find out how to stop repetitive life patterns, or end the why is this happening to me syndrome.   First we have to discover what fundamental beliefs are creating these patterns and how to break the chain of automatically triggered behaviors and events to end the cycle.   The unconscious, having new beliefs installed in it, continues its job of moving toward fulfillment of goals, in this case new goals, until they are achieved for you.   We create through the vibrations in our energy field being sent to the Field of Potentiality. It is our minds that determine what potential actualizes into real time events.   If you want the Law of Attraction to work for you... instead of against you, you have to recondition your unconscious mind as well as your conscious mind. Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 14:34 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/why-happening-me-again-law-attraction#comments creating out of default settings field of potentiality frequencies subconscious vibrations why is this happening to me again Sun, 18 Jul 2010 01:57:35 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 7786 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/are-your-words-empowering-or-disempowering   Today we're going to examine- Are Your Words Empowering or Disempowering?   We've been talking about Conscious Languaging, whether the words you use are attracting to you what you want, or attracting to you more of the same, what you don't want.   Remember, words have a tremendous influence on what your life looks like.  They are either depressing you or making you optimistic. They are always attracting real time events to you through the Law of Attraction.   Learn how to make Conscious Languaging a habit.   Please read the article on this subject for more information. There are more articles like this on http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 17:38 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/are-your-words-empowering-or-disempowering#comments codependency disempowerment empowering words law of attraction power of words releasing beliefs resistance restructuring therapy telling your story Sat, 10 Jul 2010 21:51:10 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 7639 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/attract-life-your-dreams-words     Attract the Life of Your Dreams with Words from Transform Your Life Instantly 2005, Adele Tartaglia   Conscious Languaging manifests your intentions without effort. Learn about the importance of words, believed, spoken or thought.   You can't keep thinking about, and talking about one reality and have another reality show up.   There is never a time when your thoughts and feelings are different than your experiences. And you thoughts and your feelings are expressed in words.   Please see article by the same name for more of this show topic.   Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 13:37 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/attract-life-your-dreams-words#comments conscious languaging instant manifestation law of attraction negative programs NLP power of words reformat subconscious mind. self talk Fri, 09 Jul 2010 00:33:09 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 7595 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/making-law-attraction-work-you-setting-aligned-goals Making the Law of Attraction Work for You by Setting Aligned Goals This show was originally recorded and aired in January 2010. This is the Transform Your Life Instantly radio show and I'm your host, Adele Tartaglia, Transform Your Life Expert and Bd Cert   Regression Therapist. As you know all my shows are taken from my books and articles.  Today's show is based on Transform Your Life Instantly and New Year's Traditions 2 Change Your Life. This is the second show on Making the Law of Attraction Work for You Instead of Against You by Setting Aligned Goals. When your goals are aligned with divine right thinking, that is, with the a frame of reference on yourself as a creator with unlimited potential to manifest whatever it is you desire, and that it is in divine order that you have the desire for all good things, you stop resisting their manifestation. CONTACT INFO: The Life Management Center - Transform Your Life Instantly. Call 480/706-8137 Instant Relief. NATIONWIDE Online/Phone Sessions Available. Restructuring Therapy to Re-Wire the Mind. http://thelifemanagementcenter.com   Custom Designed Protocols. Delete Beliefs, Behaviors, Traits, Emotions, Memories, Traumas, Coping Mechanisms & Identities that are sabotaging your life. Highly effective treatment for Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, Abuse, PTSD, Pain, Illness, & Repetitive Life Patterns.    Adele Tartaglia, BA, CPRT, CHt, NLPTLT, Transform Your Life Expert, Developer Restructuring Therapy, Bd Cert Regression Therapist, Business & Life Management Coach, Author, Avatar Master, Power Places Tours Self Empowerment Facilitator.    Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 11:20 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/making-law-attraction-work-you-setting-aligned-goals#comments aligned goal setting attitude instant manifestation negative programs optimistic pessimistic self sabotage shifts in consciousness Tue, 12 Apr 2011 06:00:00 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 7585 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/make-law-attraction-work-you%E2%80%A6-art-instant-manifestation   Radio Show 002    Make the Law of Attraction Work for You...The Art of Instant Manifestation   This is the Transform Your Life Instantly radio show and I'm your host, Adele Tartaglia, Transform Your Life Expert and Bd Cert Regression Therapist.   We are beginning our series on making the Law of Attraction work for you instead of against you. In alignment with today's topic, you can send in questions and stories about your lack of success with your goal setting or making the law of attraction work for you..... Send them to transforminstantly@gmail.com and I'll talk about them on the show.   Information about me and my Life Management Center is in my bio in my show section and on  thelifemanagementcenter.com. You can make an appointment for a phone session from anywhere in the world. Relief is guaranteed in 1-2 sessions using my Restructuring Protocols.   This is the first of several shows on Making the Law of Attraction Work for you, or the Art of Setting Aligned Goals for INSTANT MANIFESTATION.     As always...this show is taken from my books. Today's show is based on Transform Your Life Instantly and New Year's Traditions 2 Change Your Life.   The Secret turned the world's belief systems around about things happening accidentally, by luck or thru some predestined fate. Man must at last come to terms with his creative nature and accept responsibility for his beliefs, thoughts, words, actions and the events of his life.   The Law of Attraction is a redo of the old premises taught by Plato, the Bible, and the Transcendentalists. Called the Law of Mind Action by the New Thoughters, it states simply that thoughts create after themselves in like kind...negative thoughts...negative outcomes in your life.   Thousands of people have found that making the LOA work for you isn't as simple as The Secret would have you believe. In fact the harder they try to use it, the more they experience failure.   One of the 10 Major Premises to making your mind work for you is the reason why trying too hard doesn't work.   Today I'm going to replace the techniques being used today to accomplish this task and tell you how to simplify the process.   There is an easy 6 step protocol that restructures the entire mind's hard wiring and produces immediate and permanent change.   The unconscious or subconscious mind is 95% or more of your consciousness and the conscious left brain makes up the smaller remainder.   It is the subconscious mind that is attracting the events, people, body conditions, and circumstances to your life. And 75% of that contains negative beliefs and programs that trigger automatically.   Remarkably this unconscious manifestor in our lives has contents that are not even your own programs, beliefs, labels, or biases.   This nondiscriminatory non thinking mind does not care or consider conscious mind intentions. It does not have any analytical or critical faculties nor can it think or make judgments. It's your hard drive that contains everything you've learned from en-utero to this second, and is constantly being programmed with more information as we speak.   As efficient as the sc is as the resource center for habitual hard wired programs, and running the autonomic nervous system, it is equally inefficient as a positive attracting device.   In order to make the LOA bring to you what you want to experience, you must bring the subconscious mind into alignment or agreement with your goals that you are trying to manifest and attract on a conscious level.   To do this it is necessary to weed out the sabotaging and limiting beliefs, behaviors, agendas, coping mechanisms, and identities. This is a much easier process than is currently believed as we shall learn as we proceed with this topic.   Setting Intention Goals means you set goals that are aligned with the content of your multileveled mind, that is the conscious mind and the subconscious mind.   If the goal you are striving toward is in conflict with the your current beliefs and subconscious programs, you can easily delete these blocking programs and bring your mind into alignment so that your goal wires instantly and manifests without using the traditional longer approaches to goal achievement such as affirmations and denials, visualizations, vision boards, etc.   By this time of the year people are giving up on their New Year's Resolutions or have already given up on fulfilling those goals for themselves.   Life is about change. Nothing stays the same in nature or in any man made system. As the world keeps changing around you, creating new solutions to deal with old problems, inventing new products, and discovering sacred traditions to find peace within...to stay stagnant is to be left behind and out of sync with your environment.   What I want you to know is that Change is more than possible when you know how to bring both the conscious mind, the goal setter, and the subconscious mind, your autopilot, into alignment with each other.   Failure to keep your resolutions becomes a thing of the past when you understand how your mind works and take steps to make it support rather than block the life you would prefer to be living.   Bad things don't happen to good people. Bad programming does.. and then we out picture in our lives those negative programs.   Everyone can change anything about themselves they want to.   Everyone can be happy, successful, peaceful, loving, and intentional.   The first thing to recognize when setting a goal or making a resolution is to know yourself well enough to know if the goal you are setting is one you really want to achieve... or something you feel obligated to do for someone else or expected to do to fit in.   Picking the things you want to change about yourself is a time for self honesty and vulnerability that have big payoffs. Here are some Directions for Intentionally Creating Goals or Resolutions.    This is behind the scenes work you may want to do before you start the process of fulfilling your resolutions.     I.          As you consider a resolution or goal, consider what your motivation for that goal is.  Ask yourself these questions as you listen today.   a)       Are you trying to change for someone else or for yourself?   If you are trying to change or accomplish a goal and your heart is not in it, your chances are appreciably decreased.           b)      Are you changing to gain external approval or validation, or to gain internal self approval?                   c)   Are you making a change in order to gain some advantage in business or over another person, or are you                    making a change in order to perform your job more efficiently or handle relationships with others more                    harmoniously?     d)       Or, are you making a change because it feels like the right thing to do for you and will increase your self esteem and the quality of your life?   Every answer that comes from your own mind, or is about you and your internal guidance system, your emotions... is a pro for setting that goal. It aligns with who you are, how you feel and what you want which is the only valid criteria for setting a goal.     II.         For each item on your list, ask yourself:   a)       How do I need to alter my attitude in order to make this goal take place?      Remember that is it never what happens to a person that changes their life; it is their attitude toward the event and their beliefs about it ...and themselves that alters everything.   Attitudes are contained within thought forms consisting of words, which are based on beliefs.   If your attitude is.... a divorce or serious illness would destroy me, it may unless you change that attitude. Remember our expectations are major factors in attracting what happens to us... like Self fulfilling prophecy.   If you believe the statement above, you will be fearful of divorce or illness and resist it, thus creating it.   The same energy used to worry, fear and resist something is the energy used to create it. Energy is energy and it always creates the object of its attention.    Well I see by the clock our show time is up for today so listen to the next segment where we continue talking about this topic. Remember everything in this show is directly from my book Transform Your Life Instantly.   Thank you for listening today.   For more information on transforming your life, go to  thelifemanagementcenter.com or email me at easytherapy@q.com or call 480/706-8137.      ...and remember my friends...What you change in your own mind changes in mass consciousness as we move toward zero point and critical mass.   You can make a difference simply by restoring your own multi-leveled consciousness to harmony... thus contributing to the ongoing shift toward the harmonious loving cooperation principle.   This is Adele Tartaglia, the Transform Your Life Expert, signing off.   ....Until we talk again, create only good things for yourself and the planet.   Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 14:03 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/make-law-attraction-work-you%E2%80%A6-art-instant-manifestation#comments aligned goal setting delete negative programs end self sabotage instant manifestation make the Law of Attraction work for you Wed, 12 May 2010 23:10:51 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 6374 at http://thewinonline.com http://thewinonline.com/episode/get-aquainted-transform-your-life-instantly This show is based on my books, articles, and therapeutic protocols. You can find everything I say in one of my books so don't worry about not getting it the first time. Today's show is taken from my book: Transform Your Life Instantly: Make Your Mind Work for You Instead of Against You, 2005.   You will learn about patented protocols to instantly delete traumas, beliefs, behaviors, personality traits, and identities that are sabotaging your life.    The effect is that your mind begins to work for you instead of against you. By taking control of your multi-leveled mind, you are taking control of your life. Using Mental Erasers and other protocols, you can change Your Life instantly and permanently.    We will be discussing the tools, behaviors, and thinking patterns that assist you to recover functionality by staying in the present moment, where you can deliberately choose your responses to life, instead of constantly being triggered to an earlier moment of trauma that causes you to react defensively instead of respond with consideration.   You will learn about a new easier way to make the Law of Attraction work for you than affirmations, visualizations and vision boards.    It is the subconscious mind that is attracting events, people, and circumstances to your life, not your conscious mind or its goals and intentions.   As you know, your life is a reflection of your beliefs. As soon as you change your beliefs, your life changes automatically without any effort on your part. It's called effortless living.   The reason this process works is because you can't experience anything you don't believe in...even if you aren't aware you believe in it, because it's an unconscious hidden program generated automatically.      By deleting the underlying causality of events, the beliefs creating and supporting the unresolved core issues, repetitive life patterns stop.  This is the end of asking why is this happening to me again?   Look for the 2nd edition ebook of Transform Your Life Instantly: Make Your Mind Work For You Instead of Against You.   The Transform Your Life Workbook with exercises 2 locate hidden programs & tools 2 change your life is also coming out soon.   I'm expanding my Make Your Mind Work 4 You Workshops which should be ready to start up again in a few months.   In the interim I will conduct teleconferencing workshops and trainings for therapists and life coaches.   I have a pet project called Therapist For Veterans that I am creating getting Michelle Obama's endorsement on so I can take it across the nation to give relief to our veterans.   I want to do trainings on these protocols which are a new, non-imprinting, non-traumatizing solution to PTSD.   For more information on therapy sessions, life coaching, and family counseling please go to  http://thelifemanagementcenter.com or email me at transforminstantly@gmail.com. Nationwide phones sessions are available for adults and children 480/706-8137.              Transform Your Life Instantly Show Transform Your Life Instantly Show 11:20 WIN Australia, WIN Brazil, Education, WIN Canada, WIN China, Health, WIN Japan, WIN Jordan, Life Balance, WIN Malaysia, WIN Philippines, Self Development, WIN Singapore, WIN South Africa, WIN India, WIN New Zealand, WIN U.K., WIN Netherlands, Inspiration, Alternative Health, Business, Careers, Christianity, coaching professionals, counseling, Integrative Therapy, Kids & Family, Life Coach, Medicine, motivational speaker, Other, Performing Arts, Personal Journals, Philosophy, Podcasting, Religion & Spirituality, Science & Medicine, self empowerment, self help, self improvement, Self-Help, spiritual counseling, Spirituality, success coaching, Therapy, Transform Your Life, transformational techniques, http://thewinonline.com/episode/get-aquainted-transform-your-life-instantly#comments delete core issues have love peace success law of attraction mental erasers stop repetitive life patterns take control of your life transform life instantly Wed, 10 Mar 2010 21:09:34 +0000 Adele Tartaglia 4394 at http://thewinonline.com