If you are single, one of your New Year's resolutions might be to finally find a man and get into a great relationship. Maybe you have vowed not to spend another
New Year's Eve at home with your cat watching the ball drop in Times Square. Maybe you have signed up on an online dating site or have joined a meet up group or bowling
team. This is all fabulous, get out there and be seen, meet new people. But the best strategy to finally hook up with a soul mate, is to make 2011 the year to love yourself.
Make a list of things about yourself that you would like to improve. A list of things that if you did them, you would feel better, more confident, and secure by doing.
Decide that you are worth the time and effort to be the kind of person that someone wants to be with. Do you need to get your finances in order? Pay off some lingering credit card debt? Finally open
that retirement account? Maybe you want to take a class to improve your computer skills, or learn how to change the spark plugs on your car, so as not to have to rely on a man.
Have you let yourself get out of shape and need to get on a workout schedule to trim down and have more energy? Buying a juicer and committing to making a big glass of fresh vegetable juice every morning
will energize you more than that caramel latte with extra whipped cream that you grab on your way to the office.
Feeling great about yourself will raise your vibration and make you sparkle. People cannot help but being attracted to a woman who is happy in her skin and confident in her skills. Soon you will no longer
be looking for your soul mate, he will be drawn to you like a magnet!